Let
Go
ref:September 99 Heroinsight
to
`let go' does not mean to stop caring, it means I
can't do it for someone else
to
`let go' is not to cut myself off, it's the realisation
I can't control another
to `let go' is not to enable, but to allow learning
from natural consequences
to `let go' is to admit powerlessness, which means
the outcome is not in my hands
to `let go' is not to try to change or blame another,
it's to make the most of myself
to `let go' is not to care for, but to care about
to `let go' is not to fix, but to be supportive
to `let go' is not to judge, but to allow another
to be a human being
to
`let go' is not to be in the middle arranging all
the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their
destinies
to `let go' is not to be protective, it's to permit
another to face reality
to `let go' is not to deny, but to accept
to `let go' is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead
to search out my own shortcoming and correct them
to `let go' is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself
in it
to `let go' is not to criticise and regulate anybody,
but to try to become what I dream I can be
to `let go' is not to regret the past, but to grow
and live for the future
to `let go' is to fear less and love more.
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